07 October 2012

Road Fell Away (Sunday Meditation #22)

October 7th, 2012. The Year of My Discontent.

It has been a year since it happened. 365 days around the Sun, back to where I started, only older. One year ago today, I was laid off from my job. The third time in as many years, a trifecta of monumentally dubious distinction. The honor is mine, but I would happy to have not been...graced...by its presence.

The preceding year has been one of growth and retreat, shock and joy, fear and contentedness. It has been singularly fruitless in the furthering of my career as an architect. Never have I expended so much effort in pursuit of work with so little return. The frustration and despondency have sometimes encased me in a portable sphere of emotional gel, on occasion. Thick, sticky and suffocating.

I am learning to breathe for the sake of breathing. Because I must. Because I exist independently of my education and training, my professional obligations and notions of self-worth appended thereto. It has to be that way, because I was myself before the world tried to define me.

Is there wisdom is this struggle of mine? Is there anything to be learned from this equinoctial year of professional disconnection? I hope so. But I cannot tell you yet what knowledge I have gained, my friends. I can tell you this: that moment when the wheels leave the pavement may well be one of the single most important defining moments of a lifetime, even if we don't recognize it.

Driving the straight and open path is easy, and not necessarily edifying. It is what we do when the road falls away that reveals so much more about ourselves. It may be time to let go of the wheel and trust I hit the pavement at the proper angle when I land.


  1. Unemployment would be one thing if we could look into a crystal ball and see ourselves back at work, somewhere, sometime. Might make it fun, even. But the now knowing is the worst.

  2. The last paragraph spoke to me the most. Thanks for sharing.

  3. And if you have to walk, walk on
    This is beautiful Kevin
    There is a thread of hope woven throughout your words

  4. Architect. Spice Merchant. Detours can sometimes take us on a far more interesting journey than expected, though it might not be the easier route.

  5. I was myself before the world tried to define me.

    ... I especially love that powerful sentence. I have a cousin who is an architect and the same thing happened to him. Hope things turn around soon.

  6. @terlee: Now if I could somehow combine the two, that would be a very interesting career :)

  7. And then, IG, there is always your beautiful writing, and I do mean beautiful.
    Is it the universe speaking to you, screaming at you?
    Yes, keep working out the architect thing, I'm sure you are wonderful at that craft. However, you are so gifted with your words!


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